Question 1

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

Accepted Answer

If something in your relationship or your inner life feels stuck, painful, or like it keeps repeating — that's usually enough reason to reach out. You don't need to be in crisis to benefit from therapy. Many people come in simply because they want more from their relationships than what they're currently experiencing.

Question 2

What happens during the first session?

Accepted Answer

The first session is mostly about me getting to know you — what's brought you in, what you've already tried, and what you're hoping for. I'll ask questions, listen carefully, and share my honest read on what I'm hearing. By the end, we'll have a clearer sense of whether working together makes sense and what that might look like.

Question 3

Do you offer a free consultation before committing?

Accepted Answer

Yes. I offer a free 15-minute phone consultation so we can get a sense of fit before scheduling a full session. There's no pressure and no commitment required. You can book one through the contact form on this site.

Question 4

How do I know which service is right for me?

Accepted Answer

That's exactly what the consultation is for. Whether you're unsure between individual and couples therapy, or wondering if an intensive might be a better fit, I'll help you think it through honestly — including being upfront if I think someone else might serve you better.

Question 5

What if my partner doesn't want to come to therapy?

Accepted Answer

It's more common than you'd think. Sometimes one partner is more ready than the other. In those cases, individual therapy can still be incredibly valuable — working on your own patterns, responses, and clarity often shifts the dynamic in the relationship even without your partner in the room. And sometimes, that shift is what eventually brings them in.

Question 6

Can couples therapy actually save a relationship?

Accepted Answer

Couples therapy can absolutely help — but "saving" the relationship isn't always the right frame. The goal is honesty, clarity, and growth. For some couples, that means rebuilding something stronger. For others, it means ending things with more understanding and less damage. Either outcome can be a success if it's the right one for both people.

Question 7

How long does couples therapy typically take?

Accepted Answer

Most couples I work with are in therapy for somewhere between 6 and 18 months, depending on the depth of the issues and how consistently they engage the work. I'll give you an honest assessment early on — I'm not interested in keeping people in therapy longer than they need to be.

Question 8

We've tried therapy before and it didn't work. Why would this be different?

Accepted Answer

That's a fair question and I take it seriously. A lot of couples therapy stays too surface-level — it teaches communication skills without addressing the underlying relational dynamics that drive the conflict. My approach, grounded in Relational Life Therapy, goes deeper. It's more direct, more honest, and more focused on real change than on keeping the peace.

Question 9

Do both partners need to be equally committed for therapy to work?

Accepted Answer

Ideally, yes — but rarely is it perfectly equal at the start. What matters more is that both people are willing to show up and engage honestly. I'll work with where you both are, and I'll be direct if I think the commitment gap is too wide to bridge.

Question 10

Is it actually possible to recover from an affair?

Accepted Answer

Yes — and many couples come out of betrayal recovery with a relationship that's more honest and connected than what they had before. That said, it's not easy, and it's not guaranteed. Recovery requires real accountability from the person who caused the harm, and genuine willingness from both partners to do hard work. If those conditions exist, recovery is absolutely possible.

Question 11

How long does betrayal recovery take?

Accepted Answer

Affair recovery is typically a longer process — often 12 to 24 months of consistent work. The timeline depends on the nature of the betrayal, how long it went on, and how both partners engage the process. I'll be honest with you about what I'm seeing as we go.

Question 12

What if I'm not sure I want to stay in the relationship?

Accepted Answer

That's a completely valid place to start. You don't need to have decided anything before coming in. Part of what therapy can offer is the clarity to make that decision from a grounded place — rather than from the fog of shock, grief, or anger. I'll support you in finding that clarity, whatever it leads to.

Question 13

Do you take insurance?

Accepted Answer

Yes — I am in-network with both Blue Cross Blue Shield and Priority Health. If you have a different insurance provider, I can provide a superbill for potential out-of-network reimbursement. Contact me to discuss your specific situation.

Question 14

What are your session fees?

Accepted Answer

Individual therapy sessions are $130 per session. Couples therapy sessions are $160 per session. Reunification work is $140 per session. Intensive sessions are a separate investment of $1,800–$2,500 per day depending on structure and needs — contact me to discuss fit and availability.

Question 15

Do you offer telehealth sessions?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Most individual and couples therapy sessions are available via telehealth for clients located in Michigan. Reunification work is typically conducted in-person. Intensive sessions are in-person by arrangement.

Question 16

Where is your office located?

Accepted Answer

My office is located at 330 E Beltline Ave NE, Suite 300, Grand Rapids, MI 49506. Telehealth sessions are available for clients throughout Michigan.

Question 17

How do I schedule an appointment?

Accepted Answer

The easiest way is to fill out the contact form on this site or call 616-315-0993. I'll respond within one business day to schedule your free 15-minute consultation and, from there, your first session.

Question 18

What is your cancellation policy?

Accepted Answer

I ask for at least 24 hours notice for cancellations or rescheduling. Late cancellations or no-shows may be charged the full session fee. I understand that life happens — if something comes up, just reach out as soon as you can.

Question 19

What is reunification therapy?

Accepted Answer

Reunification therapy is a structured, specialized process designed to help repair fractured parent-child relationships — often following high-conflict divorce, estrangement, or court involvement. It's careful, fair, and grounded in accountability for everyone involved, not just one party.

Question 20

Is reunification therapy court-ordered or voluntary?

Accepted Answer

Both. I work with families who have been court-ordered into reunification work as well as those who are pursuing it voluntarily. The process looks similar in either case — what matters most is that all parties are willing to engage honestly.

Question 21

How long does the reunification process take?

Accepted Answer

Reunification work is a multi-session process that unfolds over time. The length depends on the complexity of the family situation, the degree of estrangement, and how all parties engage. I'll give you a realistic picture of the timeline after an initial assessment.

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A 15-minute call can answer more than a page ever could.

Ready when you are.

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you're wondering.